Just like any other relationship the right sex worker for one person, is not always the right sex worker for another. One thing you should not compromise on is that your escort should have all the qualities you need. In my experience the client usually knows the right escort when they meet them (just like when you find the right partner in life) and is going to be comfortable to go ahead with a booking. I have an affinity with my clients, they should feel comfortable, and feel that I understand what they want. You need to feel very confident that your escort will do the best job and you need to feel safe in their hands. Once you have that feeling, you will know you are in the right place with the right escort giving you the best possible experience, hopefully me. Whether it be a massage, blow job, a full sexual experience or even company, it has to feel right.
March 14, 2013 at 6:32 am
Karen,
Wow what a relevant article for general relationships and nicely put together. I would also like to think that this is an affinity that goes two ways (and maybe this is idealist), as a client may have an affinity to the courtesan but not the courtesan to the client. So this should be a mutual encounter between the two parties.
Some people feel that it is a primal need, but in the end this is a connection between two people that needs to be enjoyable and agreeable to both parties. It’s not one dominant over the other and requires respect of each other’s boundaries, needs and emotional connection. It mimics real life when you meet people and it needs to be the same in this relationship. Personally, I think it is important to obtain that right connection, which is surprisingly hard to do, but when it does happen it can be rewarding… Hopefully to both parties, where the company is just as important.
Love the thought patterns you unleash to make people think about how they treat this subject!!
Well done,
Richie
March 15, 2013 at 11:26 am
Reblogged this on Anthony Connor and commented:
The same is true for the ladies’ question, ‘Is HE the one for me?’